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Jul 29, 2025

53 min

What if the key to a successful business isn’t the perfect funnel, an immaculate website or 5-year plan — but the energy, joy, excitement and lightness you bring to your ideas?
Oh yeah, it really can be that easy.
This week I’m joined by the fabulous Tricia Murray — mindset coach, business mentor, yoga teacher and total QUEEN of fizzy, bright ideas — to talk about building a business that’s light, simple, soulful, fun and actually works without the weight of shoulds.
We talk about:
How Tricia made £7500 with just a Google Doc — no fancy sales page or funnel in sight
Why mindset and self-belief matter more than any strategy ever will
The power of minimum viable offers and trusting your ideas
The difference between lightness and heaviness in your business energy
What happens when you don’t believe in yourself — and what to do about it
And why it’s okay to hold down a job or work part-time while you build your business
🎧 Whether you’re early in business or rethinking how you want to do things, this conversation is a fantastic reminder that you don’t need to have it all figured out to take action and get massive results from it.
Trust the idea. F*ck around and find out - go on.
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For mindset and yoga, follow Tricia on Instagram here: @triciamurrayuk
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Find out more about Tricia’s work and her library of free resources on her website: www.triciamurray.co.uk
 
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Jul 15, 2025

1hr 7 min

I’m joined by the deeply wise Geraldine Crane, spiritual hypnotherapist, coach and all-round beacon of calm and healing.
Geraldine helps women heal from the complex and often painful experience of the mother wound. In this powerful conversation, she shares her own moving story of her difficult relationship with her mother and the many beautiful lessons she’s since learnt and is now sharing with her clients.
Listen in as Geraldine also shares the transformative spiritual work she does to connect with spiritual guides and offers gentle, practical ways to reconnect with your inner child, personal power and truth.
Here’s some of what we dive into:
Geraldine’s early experience of being her mother’s carer
The lifelong impact of caring for a mental ill parent and the invisible ties of trauma bonding
The first (often uncomfortable) steps toward healing from harmful parental dynamics
Why stillness and acceptance matter more than forgiveness in the path to healing
The importance of inner child work, self-love and self-mothering - and how we can begin to do this
Practical ways to start connecting with your spirit guides and inner wisdom
🎧 Come on in. Have a listen, breathe and begin to make space for healing those lifelong hurts. You’ll hear from Geraldine how you already have everything you need in you to begin.
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Guiding you to stillness and connection with your Spirit Guides
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Jul 1, 2025

53 min

This week, I’m joined by the radiant Danielle Thornton-Walker, a transformational coach, meditation teacher and all-around soul whisperer for women craving deeper self-love, self-care and permission to live another, better, easier way.
Together, we crack open a truth that so many of us carry quietly: the invisible weight of shoulds, perfectionism and people-pleasing that leaves us feeling like we’re broken or never quite enough.
Danielle shares her journey from mental health struggles in her teens and early twenties, to the chaos of early motherhood, to a grounded, gentle practice of inner compassion. I can promise you that this is a conversation that goes straight to the heart.
Inside this episode, we dive into:
💫 Why self-validation is a radical (and necessary) act
💫 How creating inner safety is the game-changer most of us are missing
💫 The Embrace Method: Danielle’s beautiful and practical approach to finally stop the self-loathing and start befriending yourself
💫 How powerful feminine energy truly is and why it can literally change the world
💫 How to begin where you are - with no pressure, no shame, and no 12-step plan to fix yourself
This is a permission slip to slow down, soften, and reconnect with your enoughness - exactly as you are. Whether you’re deep in the trenches of motherhood, unraveling old patterns or simply craving more peace and self-kindness in your day-to-day life, Danielle’s wisdom will meet you right where you are.
🎧 Tune in now and exhale. You’re not broken; you’re about to step into your most powerful self.
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Jun 17, 2025

46 min

Today, I’m joined by the brilliant Anna Rumbold, award-winning business and marketing mentor, for a conversation that feels like a deep exhale for anyone tangled up in the “shoulds” of marketing, messaging and content creation.
Anna and I dive into her journey from freelance social media manager to trusted business mentor, and what it really means to communicate your message in a way that’s true to you.
We talk about the temptation to mould ourselves to trends, how to filter out all the noise and ‘shoulds’, and why marketing doesn’t have to feel like performance art.
You don’t have to stay stuck with trying to say the “right” thing or frustrated with how to reach and resonate with your people. Instead, jump into the episode and listen in on…
Getting clear on your message without squeezing yourself into a template
Refining your voice over time (because yes, you’re allowed to be messy at first and to evolve)
Knowing when to simplify, when to stretch and when to pause
Infusing your content with more ease, fun and authenticity
Whether you’re deep in content creation or just trying to find the words for what you actually do, this episode is a reminder that your message is already within you, it just needs space and permission from yourself, above everyone, to unfold.
🎧 Tune in now to finally start simplifying your messaging processes and start rediscovering fun in your content creation.
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Check out Anna’s free workshop “Learn how to craft messaging that sells like hot cakes”: https://annarumbold.kartra.com/page/Hef17
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Listen to The Attract Podcast with Anna Rumbold here: https://www.annarumbold.co.uk/attract-podcast
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Jun 3, 2025

55 min

This week on The Should-Free Life and Business Podcast, I’m joined by Jana Krizanova, a brilliant, adventurous business experience strategist and online business manager who’s here to bust the myth that there’s only one right way to do business.
Jana and I dive deep into the pressures entrepreneurs face to follow one-size-fits-all advice, and she shares refreshingly practical, straightforward advice on what it really takes to build a business that works for you.
Here’s what we cover:
✨ The ‘shoulds’ that sneak into our businesses (and how to spot them)
✨ Why “doing it all yourself” is an unnecessary burden we put on ourselves
✨ How to begin outsourcing and delegating, even early on in your business, without losing your unique magic
✨ Jana offers simple, actionable tips for simplifying your business operations
✨ How to set kind but firm boundaries with clients with zero guilt so you can begin to really enjoy running all parts of your business
✨ Reframing entrepreneurship as an adventure, not a never-ending to-do list
Whether you’re just starting out or scaling up in your biz, this conversation will give you permission to stop doing what you think you should, and start doing what actually serves you.
🎧 Tune in now to rewrite the rules of business - and rediscover the freedom and joy that made you want to do this in the first place.
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Quiz: Find Your Adventure-Fuelled Business Style
If you’re ready to lean into your personal strengths and create a business that feels effortless (instead of forced), take Jana’s fun and insightful quiz! It’ll help you uncover your unique business adventure style and show you how to use that knowledge to create a smoother ride, happier clients, and a business that actually fits you. Take the quiz here: janakrizanova.com/quiz
The Lean Business Toolkit
If your business feels more complicated than it needs to be, Jana’s Lean Business Toolkit can help. This free 7-part email series is packed with practical, budget-friendly tips to simplify your tech stack and operations—so your business runs smoother without the overwhelm. Grab it here: janakrizanova.com/toolkit
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May 20, 2025

1hr 1 min

If you’ve ever worn yourself out doing endless cardio because you believed that’s what you should be doing to lose weight and get fit;
if you’re ever punished yourself at the gym to force yourself to get smaller and thinner, you’re about to discover a much better way of enjoying fitness and getting truly healthy right here.
In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Alice Butler, a former competitive powerlifter turned online strength and fat loss coach, to bust some serious myths about fitness, body image and what it really means to be strong in body and mind.
Alice shares her personal journey from being made redundant after maternity leave to building an empowering online coaching business that helps women reclaim their strength, confidence, and self-worth - one deadlift at a time.
Together, we talk through:
✨ The most common (and damaging) fitness ‘shoulds’ women are taught to believe
✨ Why strength training is a game-changer - not just for your body, but your mindset and mental health
✨ How to start small and build sustainable habits without the all-or-nothing pressure
✨ Why you definitely won’t get bulky from weight lifting
✨ Real stories from Alice’s clients that prove that you can start exactly where you are, even if you think you can’t lift a single dumbbell right now
✨ How to find the right coach, the right routine and the right environment to truly start seeing results in your workouts
✨ Why guilt-free self-care and body positivity can go hand-in-hand with fitness goals
This is an inspiring, no-BS conversation that’ll leave you feeling fired up to move your body from a place of genuine self-love, not punishment.
🎧 Listen to the episode now to ditch the “skinny is best” myth and step into a vision of strength, joy, and sustainable self-care—on your terms.
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May 6, 2025

51 min

While most of us have grown up with all manner of rulebooks and ‘shoulds’, Chloe grew up in a household that, in her words, “actively shunned the shoulds”.
On this week’s episode, guest Chloe Weatherhead, founder of Andiomo Business Assistance and host of the Strings to Your Bow podcast, reveals a wonderfully unconventional way of learning to make your way in the world, making decisions throughout your life and truly interacting with others without judgement.
Raised in a home that prized kindness, non-judgement and a deep commitment to working well, Chloe shares how her unusual upbringing has shaped her approach to life and business: which is all about helping others to ditch the ‘shoulds’ that don’t serve them and to always act in alignment with their value system.
Here’s what we cover:
✨ What it’s like growing up with non-conformist parents - and how that childhood has shaped Chloe’s values, confidence and gut instincts
✨ How we can respond to the pressure to conform to societal ‘shoulds’ without being shoved into a box or being corralled into positions that don’t serve us
✨ Why questioning authority and rules can be one of the most empowering things we can do for ourselves, not something to be scared of
✨ The value of kindness, self-trust and creating a life and business rooted in ease and integrity, not pressure
✨ Why you don’t have to do things the “proper” way to live a successful, deeply aligned life
This conversation is the soulful permission you didn’t know you needed to challenge the rules, lead with your core values and give yourself the freedom to always trust your own way - even, or especially, when it feels radically different from the norm.
🎧 Tune in now to meet Chloe and start your own journey of actively shunning the shoulds to move by your own inner compass.
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Email Chloe on chloe@andiamoassist.co.uk
Check our Chloe’s podcast Strings To Your Bow on YouTube - and email her if you’re interested in being a guest speaker.
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Apr 22, 2025

54 min

This episode is a wild, joyful permission slip to break free from every box you’ve ever put yourself into in the bid to be the goodest good girl in the world.
This week I’m joined by Emma Eirene - founder of Joyous Misfit, creator of the Pleasure Code Framework and all-round joy activator - for a delicious conversation about choosing authenticity, creativity and pleasure over all the ‘good girl’ expectations we’re taught to live by.
Emma shares her journey from burnt-out primary school teacher to fierce advocate for feminine energy, somatic healing and radical self-expression. We go deep on what it means to rebel against the ‘shoulds’ that keep us small and step into a life led fully by our authentic passion, joy and self-trust.
Here’s what we get into:
✨ How burnout became the catalyst for Emma’s radical self-reclamation, and her journey from burnout to a life and business that’s led entirely by joy and freedom.
✨ What it really takes to stop playing by society’s rulebook - and start creating your own
✨ The role of somatic practices and nervous system support in shifting from survival to soul-led
✨ Why emotions are instructions (not inconveniences!), and how to start listening effectively to them
✨ Practical ways to reconnect with your joy and activate your truest, most authentic and aligned self
✨ How to tune into exactly what your body is telling you about what she needs, what’s keeping you stuck, and what to do to reach your next best level.
Whether you’re itching to rebel against who you’ve been made to believe you ‘should’ be or you just want to get out of the doldrums of your everyday life, this conversation is exactly the soul food and loving truth bombs you’ll need to find that spark again.
🎧 Tune in now to start stopping all those ‘good girl shoulds,’ rekindling your joy and remembering how truly powerful it is to live life your way - no compromises.
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Apr 8, 2025

54 min

If you’ve ever carried shame, fear or stress around money, this episode is a must-listen.
This week on The Should-Free Life and Business Podcast, I’m joined by Jo Cantle, a wealth activation coach based in South Yorkshire, to talk all things money, nervous system regulation and rewriting the ‘shoulds’ around wealth so that you can truly and practically manifest everything your soul desires at all levels.
Jo shares her powerful personal journey - from burnout and debt to reclaiming her wealth identity. Then, using neuroscience, psychology and manifestation principles, she clearly and lovingly explains how we can begin to heal our relationship with money on a practical, emotional and energetic level.
Here are the gems we explore:
✨ The most common money ‘shoulds’ we carry, and how they can sneakily show up throughout our lives to sabotage our financial growth and stability
✨ How the nervous system responds to financial stress and what we can do to regulate it
✨ The neuroscience between appreciation and gratitude practices, and how they shift our financial reality
✨ Why asking for help (and actually allowing ourselves to receive and enjoy it!) is a crucial part of wealth expansion
✨ Practical steps to start being your most abundant self right now.
Whether you’re navigating feast-and-famine cycles, healing from financial shame, or just want to feel more confident and supported when it comes to money, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, hopeful, and inspired.
🎧 Tune in now to start rewriting the money ‘shoulds’ and step into the next level of your wealth identity.
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Books and Resources mentioned on the podcast
Widen the Window, by Elizabeth Stanley
The Magic, by Rhonda Byrne (a 28-day practice on gratitude)
The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne
Learn more about Abraham Hicks on abraham-hicks.com
 
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Apr 1, 2025

16 min

We’ve been talking so far about the ‘shoulds’ - how they stress us out, throw us off kilter and make life so much harder.
But what if there was a simple way to stop reacting to those ‘shoulds’ on autopilot - and start reworking them into something that’s actually going to help us?
In this episode, I’m sharing a super practical 3-step framework to help you do just that.
Whether you’re navigating career pressure, life decisions or moments of self-doubt about what you should want - this episode will help you move from stress and misalignment to clarity and confidence to take your very next step.
A quickie peek at the 3-step framework:
✨ How to spot the sneaky ‘shoulds’ beneath every stressful pressure you’re dealing with
✨ How to check in with what you actually desire and need beneath those external ‘shoulds’ and pressures
✨ A powerful reframe to help you shift from obligation to alignment
Bonus: I also connect this framework with the magical principles of manifestation and higher-vibe energy so you can always move from a place of ultra-aligned creation, growth and feel-good progress.
🎧 Tune in now to dive deeper into the 3-step method that’ll help you rewrite the shoulds, reconnect with what’s true for you, and live with more ease, freedom and intention.
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Mar 25, 2025

45 min

If you’re ever feeling like you have to do it all - be an attentive parent, an ambitious, ‘successful’ professional, a caring friend, a dutiful daughter - and spin all those plates perfectly, you’ll find a kindred spirit in this episode’s guest speaker.
Today, I’m joined by Amanda Ford, a financial services professional with over 20 years of experience, co-founder of the Financial Planning Club, and single parent navigating the complex, often conflicting expectations of contemporary (working) life.
Together, we dive deep into the many 'shoulds' women, especially single mothers, face when trying to juggle multiple roles at once.
Here’s what we uncover through some honest real talk:
✨ The unrealistic expectations placed on women to juggle it all - without ever dropping a ball
✨ Why integration, not separation, of our roles leads to more flow, ease, and authenticity in everything we do in our personal and professional lives
✨ The hidden pressures around parenting, professionalism and “doing it right”
✨ The power of vulnerability and showing up as your full self in both work and life, even when you’re feeling like “a spicy disaster”
✨ How to honour your unique parenting style while still building your career and working steadily towards your goals
Amanda brings refreshing honesty and deep insight to the realities of being a working single mother and business owner, and reminds us that letting go of perfection and an immaculate ‘balancing act’ is where your real strength lies.
🎧 Tune in now for an inspiring, should-free take on balancing work, life, parenting, yoga and everything in between - your way, on your terms.
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Mar 18, 2025

44 min

How many times have you held back from sharing your truth and your stories because you felt like they should be more polished, more dramatic or more “worthy” of being told?
In this episode, I’m joined by Jessica Graham, expert brand storytelling expert, to explore the power of sharing our personal stories in business…. and address why so many of us struggle to be truly okay with sharing our own.
Jessica’s journey is a testament to the universal power of storytelling. From being captivated by stories as a child over the kitchen table with her mom and grandma, to attending 12-step meetings and teaching in international school communities, she’s seen first-hand how sharing our stories can build such powerful connection, impact and confidence - both for our lives and our businesses.
Here’s what we get into in this gorgeous chat:
✨ The ‘shoulds’ that keep us from fully embracing and sharing our stories.
✨ The biggest obstacles to storytelling - fear of vulnerability, perfectionism and blocks to self-worth - and how to overcome them.
✨ Practical ways to start sharing your story with confidence and authenticity, even if you’re super shy
✨ How to power-up your storytelling and get way more comfortable sharing your truth by identifying your core values and practising storytelling in safe spaces
Your story doesn’t need to be perfect to be powerful. It just needs to be yours.
🎧 Tune in now to learn how to own your narrative, let go of storytelling ‘shoulds,’ and start sharing your journey in a way that feels truest and most valuable to you.
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Mar 11, 2025

49 min

How many times have you felt like you should be thinner, more polished or more confident before you can truly take up space? Society hands us a long list of ‘shoulds’ when it comes to beauty, body image and confidence - but what if we faced those expectations head on and decided for ourselves what confidence really looks like?
In this episode of The Should-Free Life and Business Podcast, I’m joined by confidence and visibility coach Tamsin Broster, to dive deep into the many complex, nuanced issues around body image, self-acceptance and breaking free from harmful, limiting beauty ideals.
Together, we explore:
✨ Tamsin’s personal journey with body image, from diet culture struggles to true self-acceptance
✨ The ‘shoulds’ we absorb around thinness, beauty, and confidence, and how they hold us back
✨ How oppressive systems and privilege shape our experiences with body image and visibility
✨ Why real confidence isn’t about distraction or avoidance but about about confronting and unlearning these societal oppressions
✨ How all of this ties into women’s visibility in business and the way they live every moment of their days - whether that’s on stage or at the family dinner table
If you’ve ever felt like you should shrink yourself—physically or metaphorically—this conversation is for you. It’s time to reclaim your space, embrace your body as it is and show up in the world with a confidence that’s defined by nobody but yourself.
🎧 Tune in now for an empowering, should-free take on confidence, self-acceptance and visibility.
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Mar 4, 2025

18 min

We’ve been talking a lot lot about letting go of the ‘shoulds’ we put on ourselves — but what about the ones we place on other people?
In this episode, I’m diving into our unconscious tendency to ‘should’ others — expecting people to act, think or respond in ways that we believe they should. Inspired by Mel Robbins’ latest book The Let Them Theory, I explore how our expectations of others creates frustration, disappointment and unnecessary stress in our lives, and offer some other more peaceful ways to deal with them instead.
Here’s what I talk about:
✨ What we’re really doing when we ‘should’ others
✨ The two key steps of Let Them Theory: letting people be who they are and taking responsibility for our reactions.
✨ How releasing control over others' behaviours leads to a more empowered, liberated life.
✨ Some real life examples of how we ‘should’ others (and what to do instead).
I’ll show you how when we stop trying to control what others do and focus our attention on our choices and actions, we can finally step out of that cycle of resentment, disappointment and stress.
🎧 Listen now to start embracing the Let Them mindset and start enjoying plenty more freedom and ease in your relationships.
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Feb 25, 2025

30 min

Ever feel like everyone around you has their sh*t together while you’re over here just trying to keep up? If you’ve been feeling like you should have it all figured out by now, you’ve gotta tune into this episode.
I’m busting the illusion that there’s this ideal state where we magically ‘have it all figured out’ because spoiler alert: Nobody has it all figured out — no matter how glossy and perfect it all looks on social media. We’re all just figuring it out as we go along.
Here’s what I’m diving into:
✨ Why the belief that everyone else has it together is an illusion (and how social media fuels this myth).
✨ What it really means to ‘have it all figured out’ - and why it’s impossible to achieve.
✨ The importance of self-trust, versatility, and staying open to learning as you go.
✨ Real examples from business and culture that show how true success and growth lies in moving through the uncertainty and working with life’s messiness.
✨ Why admitting you don’t have it all figured out can actually lead to greater creativity, self-reflection, and unique paths to success and fulfilment.
Because here’s the truth: You don’t need to have it all figured out to start, to succeed or to be worthy.
Your real power and results come from figuring it out as you go.
🎧 Tune in now to release the pressure of ‘having it all together’ and see why this wobbly uncertainty could be exactly the magic to fuel your life and business.
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